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Our Story

Unable to access meaningful mental healthcare, my son Tyler sought relief through substances and struggled for years to overcome his dependence. We searched desperately for something that could truly help him, but faced barriers at every turn: long waitlists, underfunded programs, inadequate care, and a system that prioritized punishment over healing. Even when he was able to enter treatment, he was rarely offered evidence-based care, denied medical and mental health services, and forced into environments that did more to shame than to support.

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As his health declined, I learned of a promising treatment that was not offered in the U.S. But like so many families fighting for their child’s survival, we ran out of time. Bureaucratic hurdles, outdated policies, and systemic failures left us with no options. On October 5, 2020, I lost my son. Since then, I have dedicated my life to creating real solutions as well as reducing the stigma associated with substance use, mental illness, and grief.

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At the root of so many of our societal issues is a profound disconnection: from ourselves, from one another, and from the natural world. My son’s death was not just a personal tragedy; it was the result of a system that pathologizes pain, criminalizes need, and isolates those who are suffering. In losing him, I came to see how deeply we have abandoned the wisdom of connection, and how we’ve built systems that reward performance over presence and control over compassion. I believe reclaiming that connection is where healing lives, and it is necessary for our collective survival.

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I stand with all of you as you attempt to navigate this journey. Together, we can honor our loved ones by supporting each other, expanding access to compassionate, evidence-based care, and ensuring that future generations have the support, dignity, and opportunities they deserve.

 

In solidarity,
Susan Ousterman, Founder & Executive Director​

Our Leadership Team

The Vilomah Foundation’s Board of Directors provides governance, strategic oversight, and supports the foundation’s operations, which are led by Executive Director, Susan Ousterman. 

Central to Vilomah’s work is addressing the economic, social, and cultural injustices that have perpetuated the mental health crisis. Vilomah seeks not only to save lives but also to help individuals reconnect with their life purpose, fostering personal transformation and societal healing. Guided by the Board of Directors and supported by an advisory board of subject matter experts, the Foundation is dedicated to building a more connected, compassionate, and just society.

Our Advisory Board

Our Mission and Values

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Our Mission

The Vilomah Foundation is a nonpartisan, solutions-driven organization led by families who have endured the profound injustice of losing loved ones to preventable deaths. That grief is not only personal, it is a call to action to guide our society toward greater compassion and connection. We are dedicated to honoring the lives of those we lost by reducing deaths of despair, supporting families, and addressing the ongoing harms of of U.S. drug policy.

 

We advocate to advance sensible reforms, support novel and evidence-based research, and expand access to innovative treatments that protect public health, strengthen communities, and bring healing, dignity, and hope to families everywhere.

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Our Values

  • Justice with Integrity: We pursue accountability not for vengeance, but to improve outcomes and prevent future harm.

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  • Respect for All: We honor every voice, culture, and perspective, recognizing that healing requires inclusion and restoration of balance.

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  • Dignity in Grief: We refuse to be tokenized or have our grief weaponized to serve harmful agendas.

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  • Healing and Restoration: We focus on solutions that reconnect people to themselves, their communities, and the natural order.

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  • Commitment to Learning: We seek truth through continual learning and share knowledge openly, ensuring education empowers individuals and communities.

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Research Statement

The Vilomah Foundation advances novel, evidence-based research to address the root causes of preventable deaths of despair. We believe lifesaving treatments like ibogaine must be developed in the public domain—safe from exploitation and accessible to all. Our work emphasizes safety, transparency, and equity while honoring the lived experience of families and the wisdom of indigenous traditions. 

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By supporting innovative research alongside compassionate care and grounding our work in respect and reciprocity, we aim to create sustainable solutions that restore health, dignity, and hope to communities devastated by the mental health and substance use crises.

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The Vilomah Memorial Foundation is a registered 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization.

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© 2025  by The Vilomah Memorial Foundation, Inc. All rights reserved.

The Vilomah Memorial Foundation has taken the North Star Ethics Pledge.

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​​​Our peer support services and resources are intended to educate, support, and enhance the skill set of families impacted by substance use. If you require a higher level of care that extends beyond our capabilities, we will assist you in locating an appropriate licensed therapist, but cannot guarantee we will be successful based on numerous variables.

For more information on locating a professional therapist, please contact the Psychology Today Therapist locator. In the U.S., you may also call 1-800-273-8255.

 

To locate a licensed drug and alcohol treatment provider, please contact SAMHSA 
or call 1-800-662-HELP.
If you are experiencing a medical emergency, call 911 or 988 for a mental health crisis.

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The content on this website is for informational purposes only and does not constitute medical or legal advice. It is not intended for use in diagnosing any disease or condition or prescribing any treatment and is not intended to encourage the personal or illegal use of controlled substances. The Vilomah Memorial Foundation specifically disclaims any liability, loss, injury, or damage incurred as a consequence, directly or indirectly, of the use and application of any of the contents herein.

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